But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist , to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous. Now on to this week's question: Why you can't get wet during sex , and what you can do about it.
The Not-So-Sexy Truth About Getting Wet When You're Turned On
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When it comes to having great sex, what really matters is that you're feeling comfortable — emotionally and physically. You just may need to make changes so your vagina can get as wet as it usually does during sex. And once you know what might be leading to the lack of natural lube , you can do just that. Because sex when you're not wet enough can cause some really uncomfortable irritation, so much so that you may want to put sex on hold for several days, you need to know what's going on down there. Here are seven reasons you can't get wet. You simply need to slow it down and give yourself at least that 20 minutes.
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Porn always portrays the woman as being aroused and lubricated as soon as she is touched, yet most porn actors use plenty of lubrication prior to shooting their film. Many women, young or old, suffer from vaginal dryness at some time during their life but are too embarrassed to discuss the problem or seek help. Vaginal dryness tends to be connected with the menopause as it is a common problem that women experience when they are menopausal and it is this group of women that the use of vaginal lubrication is targeted at.